Christ, our true Mother

A sermon for the Sixth Sunday of Easter, which this year coincides with international Mother’s Day


In today’s first reading, Paul is in the heart of the classical world, the seat of learning and philosophy, the seed of so much that continues to influence our lives today. And among the idols, he has found an altar dedicated to an unknown god – the “just in case you missed one” altar. I know whom you are missing, Paul tells them, although you cannot cast an idol of the true, living God.

The world will always create idols and define good and evil by its own imagination, which makes it hard to know who to trust, where to turn; but Jesus tells his disciples, “I will not leave you orphaned.”

You know my way.

The commandment he gives is love, not of idols, but of God first, and of the image of God in every single, every last, every lonely person. The image of God which is not an idol, but a glimmer of glory, sometimes hard to see because we dress it up like an idol, mistaking the reflection for the original. We are like the child who reaches for the wrong hand in line at the supermarket, the false mother our distracted imagination has created. We do have a tendency to trust demigods instead of God for our salvation. We are not so far removed from the Athenians.

We mistake God for false idols, and we love them instead of our true Love. And then, we try to mould humans into the forms we have set and created for them, instead of recognizing in our beautiful biodiversity and cultural range the unlimits of God’s creativity, and loving all aspects of God’s image in them.

But disobedient children that we are, Jesus, whom Dame Julian of Norwich called our true Mother who carries us always,[i] tells his disciples, “I will not leave you orphaned.”

You know that I don’t dwell on Mother’s Day in church. It’s painful for a lot of people for a lot of reasons. It isn’t a festival of the church, and it wasn’t designed to celebrate our Lord Jesus Christ – but given that Jesus himself has given the opening this morning, telling us that he, our true Mother, will not leave us orphaned, perhaps this is the moment to acknowledge that if we are to keep his commandments, truly to love God, our first Mother, and to love one another, all of God’s children, to create fewer orphans ourselves, then we should support safer mothering.

For example, our nation is the worst place in the over-developed world to have a baby in terms of health outcomes. That is a travesty. Just so that we know that this is a product of our broken systems, our wrongful idolatry of wealth and whiteness, the health outcomes for babies and birthing parents of colour are even worse than they are for white families

If we were to undermine our national racism and undergird those most in need of healthcare and help, we could change that.

But the number one killer of pregnant and post-partum women in this country is not obstetric complications. It is homicide. Mostly by intimate partners, many with a gun.

I told another parish this week that even that tray of cookies for the women’s shelter at Christmas is violence reduction, because when we support women’s efforts to get out of abusive relationships, we save lives. We leave fewer orphans.

If we were to undermine our national idolatry of violence as a social tool and undergird efforts to remove lethal weapons from those with a track record of abuse, we would save lives. We would leave fewer orphans.

If Mother’s Day were a day to observe the commandments of Christ, our true Mother, to love God and to love one another as Christ has loved us, we would leave fewer orphans.

And if Mother’s Day is painful for you, I am so sorry. I remember the first one after we lost our first pregnancy. Knowing that Christ is her Mother, too, helped me to know that she was in safe and loving arms, even if they weren’t mine. But grief abides, I know. Lean on Jesus, lean into the heart of God. She will hold you. She will not leave you orphaned.

I imagine the Athenian in the marketplace of idols like that child in the supermarket, searching among the shrines for the right god, the right hand to hold, lost among the monuments to human pride, stumbling across the altar to the unknown god, and weeping, because he doesn’t know where else to turn.

And Paul says, “What you do not know, I have seen. And this God will not leave you bereft, or lost, or alone.”

For Christ is our true Mother, and She will not, has not, does not leave us orphaned.

Amen.


[i] “and our Saviour is our Very Mother in whom we be endlessly borne,[254] and never shall come out of Him.” Julian of Norwich. Revelations of Divine Love Digireads.com. Kindle Edition.

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One or the other

One says,
Might as well be hung for a sheep as a lamb;
another,
Thou shalt not covet the livestock.

One says,
Give as good as you get;
another,
Do not repay evil for evil,
but overcome evil with good
.

One says,
I’d rather be sent down by twelve
than carried out by six
;
another,
It is better to suffer for doing good
than to suffer for doing evil. For Christ
also


This Sunday’s readings include verses from 1 Peter 3: “It is better to suffer for doing good … than to suffer for doing evil. For Christ also suffered … the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God.” (1 Peter 3:17-18)

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Many dwelling places

A sermon for the fifth Sunday of Easter and the fiftieth anniversary of a marriage


Jesus said, “In my Father’s house there are many dwelling places.”

We read this Gospel at funerals, and we find comfort in the idea that God has room for us beyond the realm that we can see, but what if that is not all that Jesus was talking about?

Jesus said, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me,” and again, because we have been thinking about mansions beyond the sky, we are again looking for our stairway to heaven. But Jesus was pretty grounded, if we read the Gospels; so again, what if we are missing something?

None of this takes away from the knowledge that God has our loved ones in hand whether they are living or have died, nor does it take away the promise that one day we will see God face to face for ourselves. But what if we didn’t have to wait?

When Jesus says, “No one comes to the Father except through me,” he is inviting his disciples to see through his relationship to God the kind of relationship they could have. That does not mean that no one else has a relationship with God: Everyone is made in God’s image, and God cannot help but love us; I am not afraid for those who do not know God through Jesus. 

But Jesus is offering something here beyond price, beyond imagination: to know God as intimately as Jesus knows God. To know God as Jesus relates to God as his Father. To see God as Jesus sees God, the true image, unfiltered and unfaded. To dwell in the presence of God as God dwells in Jesus.

And still, the disciples struggle to see it, and so do we. So we wait, for mansions beyond the sky, and the face to face meeting with our Maker.

But Jesus has said, “In my Father’s house there are many dwelling places,” and God’s realm is not restricted to heaven. God’s reign is not delayed by our disobedience. God’s reach is not foreshortened by our short-sightedness. God’s home is among mortals, says the Revelation (Revelation 21:3).

So what some if the many dwelling places that God offers us are to be found here, and now? What if some of them are not even places? Could, for example, a marriage be a dwelling place?

This morning, as well as the Resurrection of our Saviour, Jesus Christ, we are celebrating the fiftieth wedding anniversary of Bill and Nancy. Fifty years is a dwelling. Talk to them at coffee hour and you’ll hear all about the places they have dwelt, and the homes they have built for family and for strangers alike: cathedrals of faith, houses of art, communities of connection. Their home that has opened its doors to people from afar. The dwelling place where they gather still with generations of children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, drawing them near. Yes, a marriage can be a dwelling place.

Yesterday saw another auspicious occasion for celebration: it was Bill’s birthday. I love when wedding anniversaries coincide or are close to birthdays, because both celebrations mark the passage from one dwelling place to another. 

And yes, here was another celebration going on yesterday, which I didn’t get up to watch, but I read afterwards some lines from the Archbishop of Canterbury’s sermon. He noted that the vocation of a monarch – and I would add, any vocation worth having: the vocation to marriage or parenthood, to a career or an avocation to service and creativity, to ministry in the church and in the world, to being a good and solid friend – any vocation that is rooted in love is rooted in God, who loved the world so much as to become incarnate, to dwell among us, to show us the way of love. Jesus, who was never married, nor crowned a king except with thorns, but who knew how to love: he is the way, the truth, the life of God laid out for us.

There is more; there are many rooms, Jesus says, in God’s house: room for all of God’s children to roam and find their place. In God’s home and heart are many dwelling places, and sometimes we need more than one in a lifetime, if we are to grow and become the person God intended us to be.

A piece of music, or of other art, a poem, a prayer, a new name, an old memory. These can be places in which to dwell a while or longer, seeking and awaiting, expecting the face of God. 

The changing face of the water on the lake or the ocean or the sky: these can be places to dwell upon, to contemplate the mercy and the endless grace of God.

Beside still waters, in green pastures, even in the valley of shadows: wherever we dwell, God will find us, and dwell with us. Isn’t that what the life of Jesus meant, that God’s dwelling place is among mortals?

Isn’t that why he told his disciples, “You know the way”? Because he is the way, and the dwelling place, and in his life, we see God.

Even if nothing else holds, or when it does; when other shelters fall apart around us, and when we find ourselves in love; whenever we dwell upon Jesus, we will find ourselves at home in the heart of God.

Amen.

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Many dwelling places

There was a hill covered in cloud
that resisted the imprecations of the wind
that tossed the crows about and hurried us
to shelter beneath a bare crag, eroded
by the dwelling of the centuries,
bodies it had harbored, of beast
and being alike; in its lee grew
heather the colour of a womb;
in its shadow, water carved a valley,
filled it with the bones of the mountain,
moss and green pasture, streamed on tripping
and weaving, always toward the ocean
and its intimately, earth-embracing,
endlessly hospitable horizon

______________________________

“In my Father’s house there are many dwelling-places.” (John 14:2a)

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Unhinged

I am a gate, I swing
this way and that, inviting
you to step into my dance,
leading with the song
you have heard before:
creak and sigh of hungry
humanity herded like sheep
by fear and faith by turns.

I turn upon my hinges,
beckoning. Will you
pour oil upon the nails
that pin them to the wood,
take hold the crossbar,
follow me through and through?


John 10:7-10: So again Jesus said to them, “Very truly, I tell you, I am the gate for the sheep. All who came before me are thieves and bandits; but the sheep did not listen to them. I am the gate. Whoever enters by me will be saved, and will come in and go out and find pasture. The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly.”

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The road to Emmaus

A sermon for the Third Sunday of Easter

________________

We’ve all been there – seen the person across the street, or through the window of a passing bus, disappearing around a corner whom we know it couldn’t be, because we buried them. We buried them. But if they were to approach us on the road home from the funeral, or the next day as we tried hard to remember the words of consolation that had accompanied our alleluias to the grave – what then would we think?

And what about Jesus? Last week, we talked about how difficult it was for Thomas’ friends, Jesus’ friends, to persuade the grieving disciple that the Lord had risen, that Jesus is alive! Now, here is the Christ himself, walking alongside Cleopas and his companion, and even that is not enough for them to see and know that resurrection is real – at least, not yet.

It’s worth perhaps noting here that while Cleopas’ companion remains unnamed, and in other sermons I have offered the name Fred to fill in the gap, and St Cyril of Alexandria decided that it was a man called Simon, one of the seventy sent out by Jesus during his mortal lifetime, some scholars think that this companion was Cleopas’ wife, and that her name was Mary, and that she was one of the women who stayed at the Cross, and watched the burial, and may even have come early on Easter morning to the empty tomb.

All of this, all of this witness and proximity to the truth, and still they could not quite see it, could not quite grasp the reality of the resurrection, the new and enduring life of Christ. They struggled to see through that window that the Cross breaks into eternity.

This week, the news has been grim. In Akron, the trauma of last year’s killing of a young, black man came back to haunt a city in a hail of bullets captured on video and legally excused. Teenagers were shot here, there, everywhere by people who could or would not see them as lost innocents, as children who had lost their trail of breadcrumbs in the forest we have planted.

We’ve all been there, too, haven’t we? Found the wrong house, tried the wrong door handle in the parking lot – right colour, wrong car; got lost and tried for a quick turnaround in someone’s driveway. One of my own children, in a trip across the country, waiting for their companion in the car outside a convenience store; someone jumped into the back seat, said, “Oops!” and jumped out again. And we laughed about it.

Just last night, coming out of Giant Eagle, I walked right up to the wrong bright blue car. The thought of what could have happened next is exhausting, even for me, with the privilege and protection of white skin and middle age.

That child, the young, black boy we first heard about last week, went to three houses looking for help after he was shot in the head before he found someone to take pity on him.

Look, I want to stop talking about these things. I really do, but they will not stop happening.

It makes me wonder, if the risen Christ stumbled through our doors, unexpected and unrecognized, visibly wounded in his head and his heart and his hands, how would we treat him? As a victim of our human violence, or as a threat?

As long as we are so afraid of one another that we cannot envision a stranger without rhyming them with danger; so long as we arm those fears with deadly weaponry, with too little caution or consequence, so long will these things keep happening, and injuries from being shot will remain the leading cause of death for children and teens in America.

Cleopas and companion – let’s assume for today it was Mary, his wife – were approached on the road out of Jerusalem by a stranger. It is safe to assume from other accounts we have read that this stranger was marked by the wounds of crucifixion – they may have wondered how it was that he survived, escaped; what it was he had or had not done to get himself nailed to a cross in the first place.

These were difficult times, and the place has never stopped being dangerous.

But Cleopas and Mary, rather than shying away from the stranger, pretending a stone in a shoe to shake him off, or telling him simply and harshly to leave them alone, instead entertained his inane question: What’s wrong? Well, what do you think is wrong? Have you not heard the news lately?

Instead, they invite him into their grief, their uncertainty, their doubtful hope after the empty tomb, their fear of being broken-hearted once again if the stories of sightings of the risen Christ were wrong.

They let the stranger share with them his faith, his understanding of the story of God, and how it began, and where it is leading them, and suddenly here they were, at the intersection of that story and theirs, and they had the choice once more to let him go, but instead they took the next step, and invited him into closer companionship with them.

And you know what happened next, and how Jesus broke the bread, and how they saw in that moment the rift between mortality and eternity. They saw through the window of Jesus’ humanity the divine in whose image we are made.

And what if instead they had feared the stranger and run him through with a sword or a spear, metal piercing his already pierced flesh? If they had not risked a little love in the midst of their confusion, they would not have seen his eternal life. But because they were willing to share with the stranger their story, and his, along with their bread, they found themselves suddenly and unmistakably in the presence of God.

Peter advised the people, “Save yourselves from this corrupt generation!” (Acts 2:40) And in the letter written in his name, it tells us how: “Now that you have purified your souls by your obedience to the truth so that you have genuine mutual love, love one another deeply from the heart.” (1 Peter 1:22)

The news these days is exhausting, and so instead we come and sit a while, and ask Jesus if he will not please stay a while with us, breaking bread. And will we know him when he comes to us?

Blessed are those who love the one whom they have not recognized, but in whom they discern the image of the living God, which is the design for our humanity. Blessed are they, for in doing so some have entertained angels without knowing it, and others, Christ himself.

Amen

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Prayer in the aftermath

Offered in case it is helpful in your context in this week or another. Feel free to adapt as needed.


Gracious God, king of peace, who brought again from the dead our Saviour Jesus Christ after we had crucified him the name of empire, in the name of criminal justice [emphasis on the criminal], in the name of crowd control: We pray today for those who have been killed in our name: by the police, in the death chamber, in the driveways of lost citizens. We pray for the innocent, we pray for the guilty, for those caught in between. We pray for those whose motives, whose souls, whose minds are known to you alone, as well as for those who have made their intentions all too clear.

Gracious God, king of peace, who brought again from the dead the Christ whom our humanity had killed: We pray that you will disarm our hearts, our hands, our desires, and those delegated to wield weapons in our name, and especially those who wield harm in your name. We pray your protection on those who protest death. We pray for those who respond to the dying and to danger. We pray your consolation for the bereaved. We pray your mercy for the fallen. We pray for healing for the traumatized in body and in spirit. We pray for your justice, and for peace beyond our understanding.

We pray especially here and today for _______________.

In the name of Christ.

Amen

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For all the alleluias

For all the alleluias 
that fall into the empty grave 
before the earth is cast down; 
alleluias that burst 
like a disappointed balloon 
upon the tongue; 
alleluias that took a wrong turn 
and never came home; 
for all of the alleluias 
that become ululations 
for the still dead 
and dying; 
alleluias gasping;  
alleluias splitting the air 
like a protest, 
like a chant; 
alleluias whispering 
over the grave 
and troubled earth.


Alleluia Cover, H.N.Werkman, Public domain, via Wikimedia Commons. This post first appeared at https://episcopaljournal.org/all-of-the-alleluias/

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Reeking of resurrection

A sermon for the Second Sunday of Easter, 2023. John 20:19-31


Usually at this time of the year I come to tell those of us for whom resurrection is slow, delayed, or feels too hard that this story, of Jesus coming back for Thomas, is for us. Jesus gets it when we need time to raise the alleluias, or even our heads. Jesus loved Thomas, lost in doubt and depression, knotted into his grief, enough to come back just for him.

All of that is still true. But there’s something else bothering me about it this time around.

Thomas was in the midst of his friends, who were also the people closest to Jesus, who had become his family. And they were simply unable to persuade Thomas, to show him, that love of Christ that raises even the dead.

It made me wonder: how well are we doing at showing those around us the love of God in ways that they can truly grasp and believe? Are we making real the mercy of God, the joy of resurrection, in our neighbours’ lives?

The week before Easter, we had a call come into the office to tell us that children were playing basketball in our back parking lot. Well, we knew that. We gave them a trash can, which has helped tremendously with the litter situation. And yes, we have noticed the fence damage; some of it may be from the games, some has historically been from more mature neighbours using the lot as a turnaround. The neighbour who called had no complaints for us, but they did want to complain about those children playing.

The next day, a couple of youngsters were out there playing ball, so I went out to strike up a conversation. It both was and was not their basketball hoop, they gave out, and I told them that I was happy for them to play, if they would be careful of the cars that might come in and out of the lot; only that there were times when the fence was getting hit, and times when the wind storms came through that the hoop came down, and I asked them what they thought we could do to make it safer to play out there, for them and for the fence. They suggested moving the hoop a little way. I agreed. I left them, reiterating that I was fine with them playing out there, only if they could take care of the fence that would save me some complaints, and that they were not, under any circumstances, to get themselves run over by cars coming in and out.

The next time I looked out, they had the hoop set up on the street, as they used to do before the neighbours complained about that. I had told them, at least twice, that it was ok for them to play outside here; I don’t think that they believed me. And it breaks my heart to think that I was the source not of encouragement to these young people, who are in sore need of it in these days, but just another barrier to the understanding that they are beloved, well-beloved children of God, who belong in God’s garden, yard, parking lot, what have you.

So I guess, for once, reading today’s Gospel, my heart was less with Thomas than with his friends, who wanted to comfort him, to encourage him, to convince him that Jesus’ resurrection was real, that God was still with them, that all was not lost, and that, on the contrary, death itself had lost the battle against life, and that the powers that be had fallen before the pitiful; but Thomas did not believe them.

“Have you believed because you have seen me?” asked Jesus. “Blessed are those who have not seen and yet have come to believe.” And blessed, he might have added, are those who have the words, the wisdom, the love, and the compassion to show them how to believe in the overwhelming love of God in Christ.

This is not, by the way, about converting people. It isn’t about telling anyone that we have the right way to God and they have the wrong idea. Rather, it’s like this:

When it was evening, and Jesus came to his disciples, he breathed on them: “Peace be with you.” He breathed on them the forgiveness of sins, which, forgive me, I imagine smells like olive oil, pressed from the groves in the Garden of Gethsemane; oil for the troubled soul, the conscience of the betrayer, the healing of the ears of the slaves. He breathed on them the scent of grave-clothes and spices, the scent of myrrh and aloes. He showed them the wounds on his hands and his feet. The house must have reeked of him!

Imagine, then, the disciples going about their business in the days to come, shedding the stench of mercy wherever they went, turning heads with the aroma of resurrection, breathing with each passing greeting the sweet fragrance of, “Peace be with you.”

Imagine them living as though they could not shake off the residue of Christ and his sacrifice, the Cross and the tomb, and all that it meant for how much God so loves the world; as though they could not wash away the new smell of resurrection, that had filled the upper room with wonder.

That is how the disciples blessed those who had not seen, but yet believed.

For Thomas, it was not enough, but that did not mean that he was lost, nor that they should worry about him, still less badger him with the truth. They cared for him in those sorrowing days, understanding his depression, and patient, because they knew, because they had seen it happen, that Jesus would come back for him, too.

Because they knew the love of Jesus, they were able to be that loving kindness for those who would believe, and for those who waited for the touch of Christ himself upon their shoulder, even for those who would not see.

“Have you believed because you have seen me?” asked Jesus. “Blessed are those who have not seen and yet have come to believe.” And blessed are those whose lives reek so strongly of mercy, of grace, of resurrection, that all who encounter them know that God is indeed living and loving and with us yet.

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Blessed

He breathed on them the scent 
of grave-clothes, myrrh, and aloes, 
the stench of forgiveness; 
I imagine that smells of olive oil 
pressed from the groves in the Garden 
of Gethsemane, drowning out with unction 
the fetor of betrayal and blood. 

All day long they shed the reek 
of that “Peace be with you” 
behind them like a trace 
for the dogs to follow.


“Blessed are those who have not seen and yet have come to believe.” John 20:29b

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